22 hours ago
Dear T.O. Boys,
Here’s the thing about keeping score - unless the rules have been properly discussed and success metrics are agreed upon, your KPIs are probably different than mine, which is why you think you’re winning. Just thought you should know.
1 day ago
Dear T.O. Boys,
If you want life-long, undying devotion, you’d be best served by getting a dog. They’re far better at it than humans are - in case you haven’t figured it out yet.
2 days ago
Dear T.O. Boys,
Please dress for the occasion. If you arrive in inappropriate attire I will leave you at the door, sell your ticket at face value, and have a lovely time on my own. Just thought you should know.
3 days ago
Dear T.O. Boys,
It’s perfectly acceptable to ask to reschedule or cancel a date. It’s unacceptable to do so 5 minutes after the date was supposed to begin. I don’t know what you haven’t understood that yet. No matter, it leaves me time to forge a lifetime friendship with the bartender. Thanks for that.
4 days ago
Dear T.O. Boys,
You set an ‘out-of-office’ message to let your colleagues know why you aren’t responding in a timely fashion - why not consider the same approach for those whose interest/time you’re soliciting? It would solve a lot of the mis-communication that happens and doesn’t require special skills or effort.
5 days ago
Dear T.O. Boys,
Did you ask for something and receive something else? Return it. There is no point in hanging on to things you don’t want, and you deprive those who do of access to it. Let go. Thank me later.
6 days ago
Dear T.O. Boys,
Sometimes, the universe smiles, and you find the one person with whom every moment feels perfect. Invest in creating memories with them- they’re the only things you’ll be able to hold on to.
1 week ago
Dear T.O. Boys,
It doesn’t have to be an either/or situation. Why content yourself with one thing when you can have both?
1 week ago
Dear T.O. Boys,
FYI: If you don’t like the version of yourself that manifests with your current partner, you have every right to leave, and you should probably exercise them. At the end of things, you’re the one who has to live with yourself, so you might as well be someone you like.
1 week ago
Dear T.O. Boys,
FYI - I’ve no desire to be in a physically intimate “relationship” with my best friend. Diversifying sources of support ensure that risks can be taken sustainably and that loss isn’t crippling. It may be a strategy you want to consider in the future.

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